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Shy toddlers, Should feared?

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momykids.com – Children are synonymous with fun, full of laughter, playing with his friends and always cheerful. So what if your child is just the opposite. Even at age five, he shut himself from his peers and seen as reluctant to play with others, when he was in good health except that she was ashamed to interact. What child health experts say about this?

Jerome Kagan, professor of psychology at Harvard University who studied the shy child for 30 years, said for the parents to see more of this shy child characteristics. Ask yourself, “Is my child’s shyness is really great to worry about going to interfere with happiness?” If a case like that, he suggested to invite a playmate that was not too dominant to play in your home with your baby. When your baby is getting used to the friend, invite another friend to play. He supposes that the child’s condition such as when a person learns to play in the sea. First dip your toes first, then more and more in a long time. In his research, he found that 9 out of 10 children are shy, his condition did not have to worry about.

While Dee Costigan, a teacher from Florence, Massachusetts, USA, believes in family.co.com, shy child does not automatically mean that the child was not happy. Children who likes to sit outside the circle of his friends could so he was the type who likes to watch his friends and more comfortable receiving environment to absorb the information rather than engage in it.

Costigan said, when he saw his protege looks like he wants to play but was too shy, he will ask the child if the child wants to play with the toy. If he answered no, maybe she just wanted to see from a distance. If he answered yes, Costigan will menggandengnya and bring to a toy it and teach it.


10 Pregnant Women’s Favorite Sports

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momykids.com – Sport is a good thing for one’s health. However, lately many are worried about exercising can harm the womb. But according to Erika Lenkert, in his book, The Real Deal: Guide to Pregnancy, exercise can be many benefits for the body.

Studies from The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, exercise during pregnancy can increase energy, relieve constipation, leg cramps, bloating and swelling, promote the spirit, relaxation, maintain your posture and quality sleep, build muscle mass, control diabetes, fighting back pain, increase stamina during labor, as well as help the body back into shape faster.

Lenkert find out what sports are a favorite of mothers who are pregnant, here are the results:

1. Walk
59 percent of respondents said they would rather walk away, either on the treadmill or outdoors.

2. Yoga or prenatal yoga
32 percent of the mothers were asked said they liked doing the “downward dog” as an experience that optimize the experience.

3. As usual
As many as 16 percent of respondents said they will conduct activities as usual but made more carefully, feel the motion of the body, and waited for the doctor’s orders.

4. Swim
Because swimming is also a form of relaxation, as much as 11 percent of respondents chose this sport.

5. Trot
For mothers who already have small children at home, chasing the little activity around the house is a fairly laborious and counted as a sport.

6. Cycling, running, or jogging
As many as 9 percent of respondents said they chose to keep the cycling sport body shape and health. Whether it’s on a static bike or while traveling home complex.

7. Water aerobics, walking on water, and lift weights
As much as 6 percent of mothers prefer activities in the water or lifting weights.

8. Elliptical machine and stairmaster
As many as 4 percent of expectant mothers have aerobic activity or equipment beneath.

9. Climbing or Pilates
As many as 3 percent of the mothers chose to walk to a hill or doing Pilates exercise with a special coach.

10. The rest, as much as 1 percent, voted for strength training, cross training, light stretching, hip hop classes, toning classes, gardening, cleaning, or working while standing.

Obviously, the choice and strength of each person is different, so it’s always a wise choice to discuss the condition and adjustment of exercise is best for you.


6 Rules of Swimming While Pregnant

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momykids.com – Exercise undertaken in the water, like swimming or aquarobik, provides many benefits for women who are pregnant. Excess water sports than other sports is the lack of risk of injury to bones, joints, and muscles. Because, when in the water, the body will be supported by water that has thrust upward. Body weight while in the water much lighter than on land. Perform this exercise in water 3 to 5 times a week, each for 30 minutes. Or, consult with your doctor.

Benefits:
* Train the lungs and heart. These benefits are similar to aerobic exercise, running, or walking.
* The muscles become stronger so that helped shore up the back and waist often feels sore.
* Smooth blood circulation so that oxygen and nutrient sufficiency.
* Work out on the ground can make a hot body soared, not because it is done while swimming in the water. Pregnant woman’s body temperature will remain stable.

Nevertheless, there are signs you should look before starting to swim:

1. Swimming and aquarobik can be done at any gestational age.

2. All the pool styles may be pregnant. Train freestyle shoulder. Breaststroke or frog style flexibility training and pelvic muscle strength to toe. Backstroke stimulate the arm, back, and legs. While the butterfly style hard done by pregnant women with a big belly. When training, you should combine freestyle, chest, and back, as trained body part is different.

3. Pay attention to the physical condition while exercising. When the body signals are tired, rest soon. Especially when feeling tense in the area around the abdomen. It could happen contraction.

4. Beware of the pool water conditions. Select the pool with good water quality. Contaminated water risk of causing infection.

5. Beware of the area around the swimming pool, because the balance of pregnant women is reduced. It is feared that when walking by the pool women can slip.

6. Avoid jumping straight into the pool. The way it makes great water pressure to the vagina so that fear it would damage the membranes that protect the fetus. So come down to the pool via the stairs.

source : Dr. Arina Indriany, SpOG


Treating Endometriosis Without Drugs

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momykids.com – The existence of certain side effects is one reason for lazy people taking the drug, including to overcome endometriosis (growth of uterus is not perfect). Now endometriosis can be overcome without drugs, simply by improving the ability of the immune system.

Endometriosis is a uterine tissue that grows outside the uterus but in the endometrium (lining of the uterus). This condition causes menstrual pain and difficulty becoming pregnant, while in certain severity can spread to the brain tissue and lungs.

Besides genetics, other factors that increase the risk of endometriosis is immune or immune system. Research conducted by Dr. H Muharram, SpOG (K) from the Faculty of Medicine, University of Indonesia (Faculty of medicine) shows, women who have endometriosis have immune systems that are less resilient.

Immune system components associated with endometriosis are Natural Killer cells (NK), which is a natural killer for foreign cells in the body. The ability of these cells decreased in patients with endometriosis and can not control the growth of endometrial abnormalities.

“NK is supposed to kill the endometrium grows outside the uterus, but because of weak then left alone. Let me stronger, NK should be ‘schooled’ in order to Lymphokine Activated Killer or SARs,” said Dr. Muharam after undergoing trial for his research doctoral promotion is in the Senate Room FKUI, Salemba, Jakarta, Thursday (01/20/2011).

The new method developed by Dr. Muharam to overcome endometriosis is to strengthen NK into LAK. You do this by removing it from circulation, then ‘schooling’ or reacting with other immune system components namely interleukine-2 (IL-2).

After becoming the SARs, these immune system components are put back into the patient’s body. SAR is then going against endometriosis naturally, without using drugs or radical operations which often ended with the removal of the uterus.

In the short term, the results of this study is not yet implemented because of the new studied in vitro in the laboratory. But Dr Muharam confident in the future he developed a method that can be beneficial for patients with endometriosis whose population reaches 10-15 percent of women of childbearing age.

Besides supported by the Faculty of medicine, in this study Dr Muharam also received support from a research institute in Paris, INSERM. The institute also offers post-doctoral research for Dr. Muharram, in which one of the goal to create a vaccine endometriosis.

Endometriosis Make Hard Pregnant Women

Menstrual pain is not fair is the most common complaints in endometriosis or endometrial growth outside the uterus. For those who never or rarely experienced menstrual pain, other symptoms that can be identified is hard to have kids.

The growth of the endometrium (uterine lining) that is not normally affect the fertility of women in various ways. Among the damaged structures in the reproductive organs and affect the immune or immune system to attack sperm masik.

Damage to the structure of reproductive organs occurs if the endometriosis to grow around the ovaries (ovaries). Endometriosis tissue where it can release patches of sticky and clog the channels that connect it to the uterus (fallopian tubes), so that the incoming sperm does not reach the ovary.

In addition, the endometrium is growing in places that are not supposed to be recognized by the immune system or immune system as foreign substances are dangerous. This foreign body will activate the mechanism of resistance which is sometimes too active so that it attacks the foreign cells that are not harmful.

“So many foreign body, the immune system can not remember which real opponent. Including the incoming sperm cells is also considered an enemy, then beaten.’s Why people with endometriosis difficult to have children,” explained Dr Muharam.

Dr Muharam said, endometriosis is not deadly but very annoying because it can interfere with fertility and trigger pain. Even if it spreads to the lungs and brain, the patient could be seizures and lung deflation each time having my period.

Condition experienced by about 10-15 percent of women at childbearing age are generally overcome by the provision of hormonal drugs, surgery or even removal if it is too severe. Although incurable, the chance is high enough   recurrence which reached 33.3 to 40.3 percent.

In order not to already severe, Dr. Muharam advised to immediately consult when encounter the symptoms of endometriosis. For example, if menstrual pain does not heal despite taking medication, should be examined to anticipate the presence of infection or endometriosis


TOXOPLASMA IS DANGER FOR MOM’s AND FETUS

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momykids.com – In healthy people, toxoplasmosis parasite does not affect anything. Another case in pregnant women. If not a miscarriage, the fetus is born will be threatened with disabilities.

Often hear, right, pregnant women who miscarried or the baby defects caused by Toxoplasma infection. Actually, according to dr. Indra Anwar, Sp.OG, toxoplasmosis infection can affect anyone. Both men and women can contract the parasite called Toxoplasma gondii that is popular. The statistics also showed that nearly a third of the world’s population, both men and women infected with Toxoplasma. Initially, the disease was found in a rodensial (rodent) in Tunisia in 1908. While the new man was found in Czechoslovakia in 1923.

Expressed by Indra, for normal, healthy people, toxoplasmosis infection does not cause significant interference. The conditions are always “asleep” allows it. Doctors from RS Bunda Jakarta is then revealed, although it has the properties of opportunistic toxoplasmosis parasite. If the immune system strong didiaminya person, the virus does not cause significant interference. It was only when the immune system is weak, the virus will cause danger toxo. That is why, toxoplasmosis infection can occur at any time. Also, there is no guarantee that someone who has been acquitted toxo, three months will remain free of the virus.

In the body, these parasites will damage the core cells, including egg cells. In women, it could be her eggs are already mature and ready to be fertilized destroyed by the parasite Toxoplasma, so pregnancy is unlikely. Furthermore, if these infections occur in pregnant women, other than a miscarriage, toxoplasmosis can cause defects in the fetus. Even if the baby could be born alive, usually accompanied by various disorders and congenital defects such as hydrocephalus or Microcephaly, also impaired vision.

The impact of these infections exist that can be seen once the baby is born, there is also a long time after birth. So, could have been born during the baby looks healthy, but later in development, the symptoms appear like korioretinis eye abnormalities (impaired vision) and strabismus (squint), or hydrocephalus (accumulation of fluid in the brain cavity), and seizures.

What is clear, about 40% of pregnant women at risk of Toxoplasma infection. The earlier attack Toxoplasma, the greater its impact on the fetus. For example, if pregnant women infected with toxoplasmosis parasite in the first trimester, the possibility that the fetus will be infected reached 17 percent. About 60 percent of infected fetuses are experiencing severe toxoplasmosis and 40 percent lighter. If the parasite is attacking the second trimester, then the chances of infection by 24 percent, of which about 30 percent experiencing severe toxoplasmosis. Finally, if the toxo parasite attack in the third trimester, the possibility of a baby infected with 62 percent, but the amount is not one who suffered severe toxoplasmosis. That is, although positive mother, the fetus is not necessarily.

When the parasite to infect the fetus, means that these processes continue in congenital. From the mother’s body, the parasite transmitted through the placenta into the fetus. Then, Toxoplasma gondii penetrated into the fetal brain and nerves without any resistance because these parasites enter before antibodies can destroy the fetus.

THROUGH FOOD AND ANIMAL

Transmission of Toxoplasma infection, according to Indra divided into three different stages or ways. First, through foods such as meat, fruit, or vegetables that have been exposed to toxo parasite. Second, through blood transfusion. Third, through organ transplants.

Please note, animal cat is the definitive host of Toxoplasma virus. In the intestine kucinglah toxo parasite breed. Toxo eggs, amounting to millions of going out with cat feces. “The number could reach 10 million eggs a day. If the egg is ingested by us, it will grow and multiply, then enter the brain tissue, heart, and muscle. There, the eggs will develop into cysts. ”

In the open, toxo parasite eggs can survive for months, especially in the damp soil. The spread will be more severe if the cats free to roam into the house, including to dispose of droppings. Well, contaminated soil and cat feces containing Toxoplasma cysts, later it can only transmit the infection to foods or other animals, like rats. If the rat ruffled food and fruits in the kitchen, the food will be contaminated with this parasite.

Soil can also become a means of transmission of infection for other pets, such as goats, cows, and pigs. Children who used to play in the soil can become infected, if the land is contaminated cat feces that had been infected with toxo.

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These parasites have a unique working power. If you have entered into the animal’s body, then the cyst will be wedged between the fibers of the meat and go into the human body through the intestine. From the intestine, toxo then spread throughout the body, through the blood vessels and lymph vessels.

That way, Toxoplasma infects not only cats but also rabbits, dogs, pigs, birds, goats and other animals. The difference, Toxoplasma cysts in human flesh is not the source of transmission. That is why humans can be attacked by these parasites although not all meat eaters exposed to toxoplasmosis.

As an illustration, a study conducted by Dr. dr. Adi Priyana, Sp.PK, which appeared daily Kompas, October 1, 2003, also concluded, domestic poultry (chicken) in Indonesia, many are exposed to Toxoplasma, and chicken heart is one of the attachment of Toxoplasma gondii. “However, mothers need not worry excessively, because the toxo parasite will die if the meat is thoroughly cooked above 67 degrees Celsius,” said Indra.

TREATMENT IS SAFE

IF expectant mothers suffering from toxoplasmosis detected, then the doctor will perform the treatment by giving appropriate antibiotics, a suitable and safe for pregnant women. “Although there are side effects, usually a doctor will also consider the extent to which the benefits and harm of the drug. If its benefits more, the doctor will give the drug, “said Indra.

Sulfadiazine and pyrimethamine are used at once is the most common drug toxo. However sulfadiazine can cause serious allergic reactions if not suitable. For replacement, doctors usually give clindamycin. In some people, clindamycin may cause stomach upset, while pyrimethamine may lead to less blood. To overcome the effect of pyrimethamine in our marrow, mothers are encouraged also to use the drug leucovorin or folinic acid.

There are other drugs that are less frequently used, such as azithromycin, Fansidar, and mepron. Consult a physician if the drugs we used to drink does not work or even result in side effects that interfere.

It is important to remember, because the shape of the parasite, toxoplasmosis virus in the body can not be eliminated, but can only be controlled so as not to endanger. You do this by doing the appropriate antibiotic treatment. The duration of treatment could take many months.

In addition to drugs, toxo can also be overcome by keeping the immune system. Can pass drugs or natural ways such as eating nutritious foods, exercise and adequate rest. “Some supplements can also help the body’s defense against illness for a long time. To keep the body healthy. ”

DETECTION IN MATERNAL AND FETAL

Unfortunately, by naked eye is very difficult to detect whether a person is exposed to toxo parasite or not, because in adults is usually not accompanied by physical and psychological disorders. Moreover, if the condition of his body healthy and fit. Even if the symptoms appear at most only a few
way as fever, headache, and fatigue. As a result, the disease is often not detected, so the new suspicions arise after a miscarriage or a child born with congenital abnormalities (congenital).

Certainty the existence of these parasites can only be obtained if the mother’s blood is checked in the laboratory. Through the blood that doctors will know whether the mother had already had antibodies to toxo or not. The presence of antibodies in the mother’s body is ever attacked by an indication of toxoplasmosis in the past.

The doctor will examine the levels of IgM and IgG into the prospective mother. When first infected (primary infection), the human body will form IgM (immunoglobulin M) in reaction to the entry of foreign objects into the body (antigen). This IgM gradually disappear within 1-24 months later. But it could arise again if the relevant re-infected.

After the first infection, it becomes IgG (Immunoglobulin G), which is a repellent or immune substances. This substance is a protein with a molecular weight of which suggests that our bodies have been established immunity. IgG will theoretically remain in the body, only levels can rise and fall according to health condition.

One mother said to already have immunity to toxoplasmosis if their blood showed a positive IgG levels. If not immune, then the levels of IgM was negative. That is, women can be attacked anytime parasite Toxoplasma. For mothers who had positive IgG but new infection occurs, then the doctor will check a few weeks later, whether the antibody rise and endanger it or not.

To know the infection toxoplasmosis in the fetus, the doctor will perform checks on the placenta and cord. If the fetus has been infected and suffered disability, the prospective mother will be given the choice, would continue the pregnancy or not. After birth, as well as the mother, presence or absence of known toxo infection from a blood test.

TIPS TO INFECTION TOXO AVOIDED

Pregnant women should do some preventive measures to avoid toxoplasmosis parasite. Here are tips provided by Indra:

1. Wash hands before eating, because maybe it is not aware of your hands have touched objects or items that contain the toxoplasmosis parasite. Wash the vegetables or fruits are also thoroughly before consumption.

2. If the hobby keep pets, like cats or dogs, these pets should be checked regularly to the vet. This was done to determine whether the animals were infected with toxo parasite is active or not.

3. If cats or pets are on the active transmission period (approximately 6 weeks), Leave pets at a pet daycare.

4. Do not leave your pet alone in the hunt for prey outside the house and do not also give him raw meat diet.

5. Do not make direct contact, either by cage or pet feces. Ask someone else to clean it. If forced to clean it yourself, wear gloves and wash hands thoroughly. Because the parasite is very active, do not forget to clean the cage every day.

6. Avoid eating foods that are not cooked or partially cooked. Also, do not drink milk that has not been sterilized.

7. Never eat undercooked meat or meat that has been frozen less than 20 degrees Celsius for two days.

8. Do not worry when they want to eat meat contaminated with Toxoplasma (Toxoplasma gondii). Throughout the meat is cooked, the parasite that causes toxoplasmosis was going to die

Dr. Tri Bowo Hasmoro, Sp. And.


Sex, Fun How To Reduce Calories

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momykids.com – Sports, or even a strict diet of slimming drug does not always become the main solution to lower the weight. You can trim with a more pleasant way that is, sex.

Sports are a great way if you want a slim and toned body. But it is not uncommon feeling lazy come over. So you’re not lazy, sex is the perfect solution to reduce calories and body weight.

Did you know, 48 percent of people who become members at the gym, do not renew their membership this year. And still based on the same survey, 36 percent of the gym not succeeded in making members renew membership because they want to spend time with her partner who was also to lose weight.

The average British person to have sex three times a week and spend 24 minutes every single time to make love. That way, the calories burned each week could reach at least 450 calories.

As quoted from sofeminine, a survey  found that 41 percent of people claim that the activities of lovemaking can lose weight and feel more fun than exercise. So the more often you have intercourse with a partner, the more calories out of your body.


Germs Can Be Biological Weapons Ammunition

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momykids.com – Outbreaks of disease can occur by itself, but have also raised intentionally. In the hands of irresponsible parties, several types of bacteria can be used as biological weapons to kill more people in a short time.

Quoted from the Telegraph on Wednesday (19/01/2011), the following types of germs that could be misused in bioterrorism.

1. Smallpox (smallpox)
When the epidemic in the mid-20th century, smallpox virus can kill up to one third the number of sufferers. But thanks to the success of global vaccination, the WHO declared the world health organization successfully combat this disease to be eradicated in 1979.

Although it has been lost from the earth, virus samples are still kept by the United States and Russia for research purposes. Since 1996, developing countries insisted that the remaining virus samples be destroyed so as not to be misused as biological weapons.

2. Anthrax
The use of anthrax bacteria as a biological weapon in the battle spearheaded by the Japanese in Manchuria in the 1930s. United States Army War (USA) also had a chance to use it, but stopped after agreeing Biological Weapons Convention in 1972.

Many people believe, a sample of bacteria for the purpose of war is still kept at a U.S. army research laboratory in the Maryland area. Presumably that’s where some of the attackers had stolen terebut samples in 2001 and killed five guards.

Anthrax is a disease that is triggered by the bacterium Bacillus anthracis. The disease is characterized by inflammation of the spleen which is deadly to the group of mammals including cattle and humans.

3. Botulism
Not just for beauty treatments, botulinum toxin (botox) or botulinum toxin was also used as weapons since World War II. Besides very deadly because trigger botulism, botox preferred because it is easy to carry and produce on the battlefield.

Recorded army never used it, among others, the Soviet Union and Iraq in the reign of Saddam Hussein. Japan allegedly once tried to take advantage of this toxin as a biological weapon in the early 1990s.

Botox can lead to botulism, which is the condition of weakening of muscle tissue, including in the respiratory tract. Botox is a toxin produced by the bacterium Clostridium botulinum.

4. Pes (plague)
The disease is generally transmitted between animals and lice are parasites that menghinggapinya. But pes also be transmitted to humans through direct contact with the bacteria Yersinia pestis that cause.

This disease is endemic in Africa, America, Asia and several countries fractions of the Soviet Union. There has been no evidence of the use of Yersinia pestis as a biological weapon, but the bacteria are considered potential misuse.


Danger if Fall in Sitting Position

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momykids.com – Often people fall in sitting position, such as slipped or fell from a ladder. Fall sitting position feels absurdly painful. Besides pain, there is another danger you know when the fall in the sitting position.

Fall in the sitting position can be very dangerous because it can get injured at the tail bone is connected to the nerves in the spine.

Tail bone (coccyx) is one of the smallest bones in the body, but can cause tremendous pain and severe health problems suffered an injury in the fall.

The coccyx is located at the lower end of the spine. Bone segment is usually well protected, but when injured during a fall or other trauma, the bone can be bruised or dislocated tail bone.

Any form of injury to the coccyx can cause serious problems because there are many nerves and muscles are attached to the tail bone, such as the nerve that surrounds the entire spine, pelvic floor muscles, the gut, and thighs and upper legs.

Some hazard when the coccyx injury as reported by WebMD and coccyx.org, Wednesday (19/01/2011) are:

1. Pain during or after sitting
2. Acute pain when moving from sitting to standing
3. Severe headache
4. Pain in the whole body especially the waist and hip
5. Pain in the coccyx area which did not subside for long periods (coccygodynia)
6. Experiencing chronic digestive problems, especially constipation.
7. Severe menstrual cramps
8. Depression and insomnia
9. Pain during sexual intercourse

Besides falling in a sitting position, tail bone injury can also occur due to the following conditions:

1. Sitting position is wrong
2. Direct blow to the spine,
3. Injured or broken tail bone during childbirth
4. Tension or repetitive friction as the movement in rowing and cycling
5. Infection or tumor in the tail bone

Some health problems can arise just after the tail bone injury, while others appear in the next month or year.

Coccyx injury is more common in women because women make the pelvic bone forms the tail is more open.


How Long Does Flu Germs Survive Outside the Body?

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momykids.com – Known flu germs spread easily in air and can infect anyone who has a weak immune system. But really how long this flu germs can survive outside the body?

To determine how long the flu germs can survive outside the body was varied and depending on where the droplets of liquid or air containing these germs fall.

As quoted from the Mayo Clinic on Wednesday (01/19/2011), some experiments showed a potential survival time of these flu germs from a few minutes to 48 hours or more depending on the surface of what the container fall of liquid droplets containing the virus. As for knowing how long these germs capable of infecting humans in everyday life is more difficult to resolve.

Researchers have repeatedly found that flu germs is generally on much longer if dropped on the surface of stainless steel, plastic or other hard surface, than if he fell on the cloth or a soft surface.

In addition, several other factors also affect how long the flu germs can remain active outside the body, such as the number of viruses that exist on the surface, temperature and humidity environment.

The important thing to note is that the flu virus spreads, especially when someone who is not infected had direct contact such as a handshake with an infected person. While other distribution occurred indirectly, such as rubbing the nose after handling an item that contains germs flu.

One of the best ways to avoid germs flu or a cold is frequent hand washing with soap and water or alcohol-based hand sanitizer. Also try to stop the bad habit of rubbing his eyes or bite your nails.


For Baby No Fear Injection Needles

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momykids.com – Some immunizations are still using the needles, sometimes creating their own fear or trauma for children. Therefore parents must help the child so as not afraid of needles.

Parents should provide an explanation to the child medically and psychologically. In this case the child must understand that the injection not intend to harm children, but to make it more healthy.

Injected first experience is certainly very unpleasant because it causes pain, this condition makes the child think that the needle is identical with the pain so kids will always think that the needle is a tool that painful.

Immunization should be to build your child’s immune system against a disease. This is because when the immunization of children of certain biological products will be incorporated into the body, so that if a child is stricken with the disease he was able to fight it.

Most of the vaccine in injectable form as expected can quickly enter the blood circulation system, so it will appear with the reaction of white blood cells to make antibodies.

There is now a combination vaccine consisting of several vaccines, thus can reduce the number of injections that must be accepted by the child. Given BCG vaccinations for diseases such as tuberculosis, polio vaccine, hepatitis, measles, DPT and other vaccines.

As quoted from babycenter, Wednesday (01/12/2011) if the baby is still breastfeeding, the mother can breastfeed the baby immediately after the injection to calm him down. Breastfeeding is a powerful pain reliever, because it is a joint activity between the hugging, skin contact, sucking and sweetness of the milk that becomes the antidote fun of the shock and the pain of the needle.

If the child is large or do not breastfeed, try to divert his attention immediately after the injection, for example with him to talk, sing or give him a toy.

To avoid needle trauma to the child, parents should not need to frighten or constantly talking about immunizations that could make children think of things scary.

Parents can provide peace ahead of injected with a way to make her feel comfortable, happy, holding her hand and asked her to talk about various things. After the children were injected give him a compliment that he has become a brave boy and he had a healthy child. Thus parents play an important role to help your child not to fear or trauma with a syringe


When is Baby Ready for Release of Diapers?

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momykids.com – Most of the children who can not practice or large urinate in the toilet is still relying on diapers. When was your baby can begin to loose or do not use diapers anymore?

Disposable diapers are used by infants can indeed make life easier for parents or caregivers did not bother him should always wash your pants and make her house clean. But this condition should not continue to happen because it will not help children develop awareness of the need to use the toilet.

As quoted from the book Your Baby Month by Month essay and Su Laurent Peter Reader, published essence, Thursday (13/1/2011) early childhood development to urinate (pee) or BAB (bowel movement) in the bathroom variety thus there is no exact figure on the right at any age.

But parents can begin to practice it when children aged 18-30 months, and most children are already out of diapers when she was 3 years.

To find out if your child is ready or not to remove the diaper, take a look at some signs that indicate the readiness of children, namely:

1. Children tell a parent or guardian if a used diaper wet or dirty.
2. Child shows interest when using the bathroom.
3. Children have the awareness to urinate or defecate.

If the child is showing these signs, then the role of parents is to provide a psychological boost to the children and do not make the child feel guilty if a child fails to control the bladder and disposal system. Because guilt can make the development process is getting old, so give your child time to learn.

For parents initially can start from morning to evening, train the child to say or tell the parents if you want to pee or abdominal pain. In the early stages of learning, you should still use the diaper pants if you want to travel and sleep until the toddler really can control his pee and bowel movements.

In the process of releasing the diaper, there are some things that should not be parents at infant namely:

1. Scolded toddler because he wet the bed or pee careless and did not tell his parents.
2. Removing a diaper at night in the early learning process, because many children are not ready to stop using diapers during sleep.
3. Forcing children to live can pee or urinate in the bathroom, because it takes the learning process and parents should take the time to teach him.


6 Easy Ways Developing Baby Brain

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momykids.com – Did you know that for infants, parents’ best toy? Parent interaction with baby plush toys will beat any kind to support brain development. There are 6 easy ways to develop a baby’s brain.

Baby’s brain begins to grow and thrive since the age of eight weeks stepped mother’s womb. Central nervous system or brain is the organ that was first formed. At first, about the 16th day of gestation, formed neural plate (neural plate) which will then roll up to form neural tube (neural tube) on day 22.

Furthermore, nerve cells begin to be produced. Stepping on the 35th day (about the fifth week), the precursor of the brain at the end of the neural tube began to appear. From here, then formed brain stem, cerebellum, and other parts. Starting at age eight weeks gestation, the brain and nerve cells grow rapidly and reached its peak in the third trimester.

The most important thing parents can do for your child is spending a lot of time together. Here’s what parents can do:

1. Laugh
By getting the little laugh, parents will learn to recognize what he thought was funny and liked. Children will also learn what makes her parents laugh.

2. Speak
This is the best way to hone verbal skills.

3. Sing
Little will be happy if parents sing to her. This method is also effective to increase his vocabulary.

4. Hug
Babies need to feel the embrace of her parents’ affection.

5. Reading
By reading, parents helped hone verbal skills.

6. Play
This activity can foster a sense of fun and happiness together between children and parents.

Fact or Myth?

When born, the baby’s brain is fully developed, just like the heart and stomach.
The answer is myth. Brain cells are formed before he was born but the cells are connected in stages after birth.

Brain development of children depends on parents’ genes.
The answer is myth. Child’s brain development is influenced by experience and little interaction with the environment. Good environmental conditions have a greater role in influencing the future of the child rather than genetic factors.

DVD language can actually reduce the vocabulary of children aged under three years old.
The answer is Fact. According to the author of Brain Rules: 12 Principles for Surviving and Thriving at Work, Home and School, Dr. John Medina, the vocabulary of children would grow if it continued to talk by his mother from time to time. The words parents use when speaking with your child to increase vocabulary and him intelegencies.

Babies do not understand the words of her parents so no need to take him talk.

The answer is myth. Precisely by talking to him early on, parents help the child to learn to talk.


Who is more initiative in starting the sex session? You or your husband?

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momykids.com – Who is more initiative in starting the sex session? You or your husband? If the answer is the husband, ‘well, you should understand that sex is very important to start initiatives for the continuation of your sexual life and him. Not only sex is important for your relationship and he is, but also for the health and confidence.

Try to ask yourself, what is the reason you rarely start the initiation of sex with husband? If you still do not quite understand what the reason, you should re introspect yourself to find yourself sexual identity.

Basically, women are complex creatures. We often find it hard to focus for connecting certain parts within us. This is the reason why women need to be met by mental partner before sex. While the men? No need to frustation feel complete to be able to have sex.

Women today also has a role very much, ranging from babysitting, being a professional in the office, home control, home guards, delivery boy, cook, and so forth. No wonder many women put her sex life in the last part of his life in order and handed it to her husband.

Moreover, that make women harder to initiate sex?
1. Fatigue
Is the most common complaints from women that are difficult to start sex. Women often feel too tired and too much work, so no time to think about sex. Solution: If you are too busy working, then ask yourself where and when you can relax, delegate tasks to others, and disclaim liability which is not a priority, so you can do other things without assistance. You can begin to set aside money to hire a housemaid service. Whatever it is that can make you have free time for yourself and husband.

2. Consider yourself unattractive
There are many women who humble themselves, and compare her now with her body shape when she got married first. Because often compare body shape, not only with her past, but also with other women in advertising, self image was negative. As a result, you did not feel wanted by the couple. Solution: It is important to remember that satisfy a partner has no direct relationship with what you feel is against the body. Most likely, your partner has been too “busy” thinking about sexy time with you. So make sure you are not projecting yourself distrust him.

More away, if you know that your body will affect how beautiful mind, confidence, and intimate time with him, then prioritize it. Consult with a nutritionist, began a routine exercise, think about your intake, and others. If taking over how to care for the body will increase your confidence in the bedroom, then it’s time to take over and turn on your sexual life.

3. Not having enough time
When a child comes into the life of a spouse, personal time between husbands and wives tend to be neglected. Lack of time together with the lack of time to feel connected to both mentally and physically. So in the end, sexual intercourse will decrease. Solution: Take over the responsibility in your relationships, and schedule time to be alone with her husband. If this can be done, plan your entire weekend. To create the spontaneity, creativity, and comfort to have sex in a relationship, you need to get out of the routine as a couple and have fun with a partner.

4. Resentment against the partner
Do you have any resentment against the husband do something? Maybe he never or frequently criticize you, or sometimes he feels the king at home and would not help-aids. If yes, then you need to do something for your relationship. Solution: Understand what is your annoyance at him. Take time to think calmly, and pointed out nicely. He can not read your mind. The person responsible for your feelings are your own. Do not make her feel cornered or hurt. For all the obstacles and challenges that you feel in the relationship and say why. If your partner can hear and can meet your needs, then you can regrow your sexual life.

5. Afraid to feel vulnerable in the eyes of the couple
For humans, sex is very primitive. Sexual act is going to put one another in a vulnerable position. Because we bring ourselves before one another. There are things that concern by each. Like, “Is he going to laugh at me? Am I good enough for him? Am I pretty enough? Is he going to reject me?” No wonder if these questions make a hindered women to initiate sex. Solution: Take time to understand what you think. Know what makes you not trust yourself, whether it is thing of the past? Learning to recognize and believe in yourself, and the pair will help you through the biggest challenge.


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Teach Kids to be Autonomous

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momykids.com – Parents need to gradually release the children to make them more independent and less dependent on parents. My father and mother can start to reduce the carrying children, although how this actually gives a sense of security. Furthermore, children can learn to be independent according to the stages of age.

According to mental health specialists, Dr. Erlina Sutjiadi, SpKJ, parents need to know when its time to hold the child to give a sense of security and when it had begun releasing it gradually. This is just one example of a child just starting stage of independence.

“Son of a newborn is very dependent on the mother and father, with his arms will provide a sense of security. But if the age of four years is still being held, this behavior is wrong,” explained Dr. Erlina, when the talk show themed “Healthy Protection Inside & Out” in the event Mother & Baby Fair 2010 at Balai Kartini in Jakarta, Sunday (08/01/2010) then.

Releasing the child in order not to depend on others to nurture independence, carried out in several stages according to growth and age of the child:

The period of building trust, aged 0 to 1.5 years
Newborn baby in desperate need of attention his mother’s father, but that does not mean parents carried her 24-hour free. Train the child’s independence should be started at this time. Principally, when the baby needs make sure you have at his side, although it does not mean have to carry him.

“We are not comfortable due to hunger or wet diaper, babies need attention. Mother or father could carry him to give security to the baby,” explained Dr. Erlina.

Likewise when the baby begins to learn to eat solid food after exclusive breastfeeding for six months. Teach the children to start a new habit needs to be done in stages and slowly. We give solid food, for example, do slowly and do not be enforced. Starting with the taste, give the building a bond of mother and child, not just chasing down the target food eaten.

In this period the child will learn to build trust, feel cared for, and knowing her parents will always be there when he needed it. The more we get older, seven months for example, children enter a period of individuation, ie, learn to release the bond of mother and child slowly. Children begin to learn to walk, more standalone, no longer depend fully with their parents (with a picked up, for example). “Tedahk Siten” tradition in Javanese society have the same meaning with this individuation period.

Autonomy, self, age 1.5 to 3 years
The role of parents is to assist, but also give children the opportunity to explore. Because at this age a child’s curiosity began height. However, giving freedom to the child that does not mean no rules. Children should be taught good values and bad for the child to understand the limitations of his freedom to explore.

When eating, for example, teach children to eat independently using their own equipment, do not continue to be fed. Trouble is, sometimes the parents are impatient and wanted the child fast food or do not want to spend the hands or clothes dirty. In fact in this period the child wants to show himself. So you should not provide excessive aid. Customize it to their needs.

Develop initiatives, ages 3-5 years
Teaches self-reliance needs to be done early, not when the child had entered the school. Starting at age three years, for example, children can be taught to wear their own clothes. Teach also to store the dirty clothes in place, and so forth. Thus, children learn to discipline themselves and do things that would do for himself.

By way of this learning, the children also began to study the initiative do its work. Clean room into the next stage when it began to grow old. Good habits are taught from an early age will foster a more independent character in the future.

According to dr Erlina, three of the first phase is the most important for personality development of children. With a strong foundation, children have more mental strength and build self-confidence and independence.

Thus, when entering the productive phase of 6-12 years of age, children already have positive habits and behaviors independently. As well as the formation of identity at the age of 12-18 years. Children are independent in character with the confidence that grown since birth, will be able to build more positive self identity.


“Postpartum Depression” Different from the “Baby Blues”

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momykids.com – Birth to a baby into the world of feelings and emotions can produce abundant. Ranging from nervousness to excitement in abundance since the arrival of a new member in the family. However, the joy that comes at some imagined mother-overshadowed by depression.

Depression after childbirth can just come and mistaken as the “baby blues”. Baby blues is one of depression are also often experienced by mothers paskamelahirkan, but levels are still below the postpartum depression. General baby blues may last between several days or several weeks. The symptoms include: mood changes suddenly (mood swings), anxiety, sadness, irritability, to tears.

Symptoms experienced by postpartum depression, more severe and sometimes can last up to 6 months. A mother who experienced this will have difficulty to feel the relationship with her baby, and there are also minded to the possibility of hurting herself and her child.

Apparently, according to research published by the American Journal of Psychiatry, brains of women who experienced postpartum depression is different from the mother who did not experience.

Researchers at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center compared the number of new mothers within 12 weeks, 14 of them were depressed, and 16 of them in good health. Each mother indicated a face angry and frightened, while the researchers saw these mothers brain activity using magnetic resonance imaging (MRI).

From these studies, it is known that brain activity associated with emotion, not too active in the brains of women who experience postpartum depression, while the mothers are healthy, the brain circuits that they look “lit”. This could explain why the mothers have difficulties to feel a bond with his infant daughter. No wonder we hear news about the mothers who can kill a newborn child, or left alone by the roadside or other.

Part of the brain studied was a road connecting the two parts of the brain are thought to have important roles to create an emotional response to unpleasant stimuli, such as a baby’s cry.

Although this condition is not fully understood, studies of this kind, according to one researcher, Eydie Moses-Kolko, a professor at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine, said, could potentially lead to the development of postpartum depression treatment.


KIDS BODY TRAIN WITH SWIMMING

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momykids.com - Do not hesitate to introduce your child to sports pools, because the sport was allowing members to move in a dynamic body. That is, through a little pool the chance to train members of that growing body.

The result of joint research Lancaster University and the Norwegian University of Science and Technology revealed that swimming baby has a better balance and more easily achieve the object rather than a baby does not swim.

Research also notes that infant swimming was introduced a few months after giving birth help them develop their physical skills in the future. According to the researchers that the development would occur until the later 5-year-old child.

Previously, Professor Hermundur Sigmundsson from NTNU and Professor Brian Hopkins of Lancaster University swimmer comparing 19 infants with 19 babies who did not swim. Of the two groups of infants who were observed to have similar characteristics such as parent education and economic status. Thing that distinguishes the two is the introduction of sport in the baby pool.

Grouped first, the infant had attended swimming classes for two hours a week from the age of 2-3 months until age 7 months. Whereas the second group, the baby never underwent special training to swim until he was over a year.

At the first session of research, the researcher helped the baby swimming toward the floating water bed, baby then required to dive, jump from the edge of the pool and are required to hold objects that are determined researcher. When they were aged five years, both groups were tested several exercises like standing on one leg, jumps rope lt catc.

“We see very clearly that infants have the ability to swim the best in training related to balance and ability to achieve something,” said Professor Sigmundsson of the dailymail quoted as saying this weekend.

Professor Sigmundsson admitted overwhelmed when I have to inform the relevant instructor directives should be given to the babies. “The instructor was able to bring three-month-old infant position to a balanced, standing in the palm of his hand. Babies like to lock their joints, it is remarkable to behold,” he said.

From the results of research, Sigmundsson believed to give special training in children can be fruitless. “Very interesting, when I learned that giving special training to the baby growing influence in the period. Because growth and development is a dynamic relationship between maturation, growth and learning experience,” he said.


BABIES BORNED TO DANCE…..?

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Babies were born to dance

momykids.com – This is a new finding from the research. Baby, he said, was born to dance. Really?

Some researchers have found that infants react to the rhythm and tempo of music and it has been stronger than spoke.that, based on studies in infants aged between five months and two years, show the baby may be born with a tendency to move in rhythm as a reaction to music.

The study was conducted by Marcel Zentner, of the University of York’s Department of Psychology, and Tuomas Eerola, from the Finnish Center of Excellence in Interdisciplinary Music Research at the University of Jyvaskyla. That was broadcast Monday in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, early edition “online “(in network).

Baby listen to various audio stimuli, including classical music, rhythmic beats and words. Their spontaneous movements were recorded by video and 3D image capture technology and compared to all the different stimuli. Professional ballet dancers are also used to analyze the extent to which infants adjust their movements to music.

Zentner said, “Our research shows that ritm and not other forms of music, like melody, which produces a reaction in infants. We also found that the better the child can coordinate their movements with the music, the more they smiled broadly. But still have to understand why humans have been develop this particular trend. One possibility is that it is the target of natural selection for music or it has evolved for some other function which just happened to line with the procession of music, “he said.


Blushing Face Signs Healthy

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momykids.com – Woman with face flushed, looked fresh and beautiful. One study found, reddish hue on the face also showed the woman has a healthy body.

Conclusions after a team of researchers from the University of St Andrews, asked respondents examined photographs of men and women and assess who is healthy. As the page loaded Female First, the assessment of facial skin color according to the results of medical tests. Female red-skinned tend to have much oxygen-rich blood.

Blushing is also associated with estrogen levels that affect the female sex hormone. Still, a very red face is not healthy. Because, face too red tend to be associated with alcoholism.

The same study found that faces with greenish or pale color indicates the presence of disease. Lead researcher Ian Stephen reveals, adults and the doctors can tell if a person is sick, marked with pale face.

In order flushed face look shiny and healthy naturally, the researchers recommend exercise and stop smoking. Walking to work or school more often make more blood with oxygen flow to body tissues.


Hypnobirthing, Help Mom Maternity Feeling Comfortable

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Hypnobirthing, Help Mom Maternity Feeling Comfortable

What was in shadow when you hear the word “hypnobirthing”? This practice was “boom” a few dates ago. However, it turns out, hypnobirthing been known since the 1800s. One Indonesian hypnobirthing practitioner, is Lanny Kuswandi. Lanny is a midwife who pursue hypnobirthing since 2002, now he practiced at Pro V Clinic (Holistic Health Care).

Through her daughter, Vonda Kuswandi and his partner who is also a midwife, Kristina, Lanny tries to young mothers who attended the show at the JCC Smart Parents Conference some time ago to know a little about hypnobirthing. Hypnobirthing derived from two words, namely hypnosis and birthing. Hypnosis is a subconscious mental energy empowerment, with resting energy conscious soul. While birthing is the process of childbirth.
Explained by Kristina, the day-to-day work as a private midwife, hypnobirthing is preparing a comprehensive pregnancy and childbirth (body, mind, and spirit). Did you know that our conscious mind to work 18 percent in everyday life, while our subconscious has a function of 82 percent? Which is stronger? Of the subconscious. If we can control our subconscious, then we can program the thing that we want to wink in the daily.

This relates to the process of pregnancy. In everyday life, many times we hear other women complain about pain during delivery, how uncomfortable during pregnancy, and a lot of negative things about the process. Subconsciously, our brain stores memory and became a kind of inner thoughts, that the process of pregnancy until delivery would be long, tiring, and very painful. Unconsciously, there are negative things that are embedded in the inner self and makes us programmed to feel very uncomfortable during the process of pregnancy until delivery.

This is what needs to change in hypnobirthing. Through hypnosis, when someone is in a state of mind calm, relax, we change the mindset that the process of pregnancy and childbirth is no longer as bad as telling someone else. In the language submitted by Kristina, “It is the intention to attempt to enter or suggestions with the aim of giving birth with a smooth, easy, and quiet.”

Hypnobirthing trains us to “teach the subconscious”, for example, that the child is born to be good, or so the baby can help the delivery process so smoothly. The trick? By Vonda Hypnobirthing done by four basic techniques, namely;

  1. Relaxation and affirmations, say positive phrases into the subconscious so as to form of suggestion.
  2. Visualization, a willingness to imagine, for example, when the mother is still not too experienced the opening, the mother entered the phase of relaxation and thought flowers are blooming and visualize it on himself.
  3. Communicating with your baby, try to bring babies to communicate, this is possible and will greatly help the child.
  4. Deepening Technique, technique to go deeper into the subconscious.

Upon entering the subconscious mind, must be done with an alpha state or calm the mind, must be done repeatedly, identifying groups or families who have a common vision, the ideas presented figures, and in the intense conditions.

According to Vonda, hypnobirthing a wide variety of benefits for pregnant women and at birth, namely;

  1. Reduce feelings of nausea, vomiting, and dizziness in the first trimester.
  2. Healthy cells in the body and the water in the body that affect fetal health.
  3. Is a natural formula of pain management and have no side effects on the fetus.
  4. Making the mother is able to control the sensation of pain during uterine contractions.

Benefits to the fetus:

  1. Help maintain the supply of oxygen to the baby during the delivery process.
  2. Improve maternal attachment to the baby and husband.
  3. Increasing milk production.
  4. Preparing the next generation of healthy, intelligent and creative.

When the mother is already feeling more comfortable with his condition, it will be easier for him to maintain pregnancy. Especially when the mother is having problems trouble eating due to nausea, vomiting and others.

However, be reminded again by Kristina, the initial capital for the hypnobirthing is believed that this could be, that gave birth without pain it can be done. If we fight for the mind to believe, it will be difficult to instill that mindset. Better yet if there are friends who accompanied, as partner to help strengthen the mother who is going through a process of little presence in the world.


Ways of Sharing “Quality Time” with Kids

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momykids.com – Many working mothers have complained the lack of time to spend with the kids. You have to leave for work when the child was still asleep, and returned home when the child was drunk and wanted to sleep. If you have this, how can make bonding with the child?

Rather than debating how long an ideal time to spend with their children, better look for a fun and useful to accompany the child even though his time was just 30-45 minutes a day. Here’s some inspiration:

* Fostering a sense of security is important in childhood. For that, build confidence on the environment. With the view we are on the side with a smile and say hello when you wake in the morning, and said good night when escorted to the contest, he will not only be happy, but also feel welcome presence.

* Give as much as possible to touch the baby every time you are nearby. Hug, kiss, caress, caress, or a warm applause will make him feel comfortable. This also applies to children who are older at school age. Convenience is what made him feel an important part of the family. He feels loved and know that you’re still paying attention. This concept fosters confidence.

* We get up early, do any activities together. Exercising together, helping children who are in school preparing needs, or just joking fun in bed before you get ready to work.

* Convert a variety of simple activities to special events. At the end of the week, encourage your baby a bath in the backyard. This fun activity will more closely link the relationship of mother and child.

* Pause before reading the newspaper in the morning. This activity could always be done on your way to work. Instead, devote attention to the children at breakfast time together. Celotehannya Listen and respond with enthusiasm.

* In the preschool or school age, children begin to be happy to help parents do the homework. Let him engage in activities you do. Contributing power in the process of preparing breakfast, for example. Maybe at first there will be chaos here and there, but that’s where he learned a lot about prudence when handling crockery, learn about the regularity of layout, harmony, and learn other things.

* You can still show affection in ways unique. As a small note tucked in his lunch bag, “Bon appetite, my dear. Mama dear brother!” This business is simple yet very meaningful for the baby because she was so noted by his mother.

* Before the child goes to school, kiss on the cheek or forehead as he said that after working mom and she’ll meet again. Taking off her children to school, berpesanlah in children to enjoy activities in the school. “It’s good fun ya, kid!”

* The moment of arrival at home for the child’s mother is special. Because of that, they always indicate a willingness to talk and play together. Always smile when you greet children. Give a warm hug and the same. “Hi dear, Mother really miss you!”, Or “Wait a minute yes, son. Bunda clean up first, after that we played together, yes.” Although tired after work, doing any activity that allows the joint child.

* The night before sleep is the best moment for parents to establish emotional ties are more qualified. Before entering the room of children who had slept alone, ask permission first. Sit dealing with children, or side by side. Parents can start the communication, “Son, how are you feeling today? If there’s good baseball, hopefully can help Mother.”

Brief chat like that will help parents understand child’s feelings. To lure its openness, Talk first, “Mother very happy today because this afternoon met little friend Lady.” When children want to, having a cakaplah until bedtime. Continue the activity by praying together, and read story books, before delivering the baby fell asleep.

Keynote Speaker: Irma Gustiana A, MPsi, from the Institute of Applied Psychology University of Indonesia, Jakarta, and Titi Natalia, MPsi, from the University of Tarumanegara Jakarta.